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for real! (from kadji amin)
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What I've realized is that I believe that the matter of gender is practical and relational. It's not about who you are inside, it's more about how you would feel most comfortable in the world. It's not 'Who are you?' but 'How do you want to live?'
Had that been the discourse when I was coming up, I would have breathed a sigh of relief. I don't have to figure out who I am on the inside, I just have to figure out how I want to live.
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#and I kind of felt really sad when they were talking about how like they feel in some ways figuring yourself out is way harder now#bc there is this pressure to like figure out who u Really Are Inside#and instead of being like well maybe my identity goes far beyond gender and like i don't need to find some microlabel#in order to like define who is Me#it's become very fixated on like categorising ur gender rejection in a way that ends up just. making even more genders to constrain u#it's hard to summarise it was like v wordy but I thought this part was so true#for sexuality as well not to tack it on but we have really gotten into the same mindset w sexuality now as well#THANK U @VAKAVANHASAATANA for the ID it wont let me @ you in the text </33
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honestly, normalize quitting. it's so okay to drop a course, quit a job 3 weeks in, leave a relationship when it isn't giving you what you need. quitting isn't a sign of weakness, isn't a sign that you're not trying enough. a lot of the time, it's a sign that you are prioritizing yourself and your values, and that should be honoured.
#cy says stuff#compassion#hi i dropped a course and quit my summer job three weeks in#and those were GOOD decisions cause now i can focus on things that i love#also that job was so horrible for so many reasons but i wont bore you with the lore#also quitting relationships oh my god i wish I'd known that sooner...#if you're the only one trying to improve things.. that is not a relationship you want to be in!#relationships#recovery#1k#2k#3k#4k#5k#10k#15k
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today in material transphobia:
my insurance asks for my AGAB as well as my gender, then uses my AGAB as my de-facto gender marker on all documents without telling me.
my adderall (which I have to order by mail because I'm on an island) is then stuck in "processing" for a week, and I am forced to call just to find out why. Its because the gender my psychiatrist and pharmacy use is "male", but my insurance has me listed as "female", so they can't give me my medication.
when I call my insurance to fix this, a man argues with me about why I need to be listed as "female" even though my gender has been "male", legally, to the state as well as the federal government, since before I signed up for this insurance in the first place. he says there are "internal biological differences", then that people cannot access or get coverage for care they need without the "female" gender marker- pap smears, abortion, birth control, etc.
so now my options are:
1. change my gender marker to "female" for all of my medical information/documentation, including dental (bc it's the same insurance), even though the vast majority of my medical care has nothing to do with my AGAB- I don't need to be "female" to need adderall, for example- or
2. give up all access to and coverage for medical needs related to my reproductive system.
anyway, I got my gender marker changed to "male" with my insurance, since that was the fastest way to get my medication. I guess we'll see what happens when I need a pap smear next.
#maybe they wont make me go on birth control if I need accutane now#or maybe they will but it won't be covered#lol
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im very excited for season 4 [ID in alt]
#wwdits#what we do in the shadows#nadja of antipaxos#guillermo de la cruz#nandor the relentless#laszlo cravensworth#colin robinson#nandermo#nandor x guillermo#art#my art#fan art#my fan art#look. i love them and i wont apologize#some one reposted the first one from my twitter already which :/ dont fucking do that!#i hate when people do that because like i was gonna redraw it before i cross posted it so now theres an old version floating around ;/ very#annoying#ANYWAY#i love them goodbye thank you your honor#slutty guillermo RIGHTS!!!!!!! we already want him carnally already#1k#2k#3k#4k#5k
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THE FACT HUNTER ONLY STARTED TO SNAP OUT OF BELOS’ CONTROL AFTER HURTING FLAPJACK I WILL THINK ABOUT THAT FOR THE REST OF TIME
#HE LOVES HIS BIRD SO MUCH#MY BRAIN IS SO FULL AND MY HEART IS SO HEAVY#UGHHHHHHHHHH#IM SORRY I WONT STOP TALKING ABOUT THIS#IM JUST SO ANSDKDKFKKSKA RIGHT NOW#the owl house#toh#the owl house spoilers#toh spoilers
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We moved into a new house that has a balcony so now his lordship can watch over us from on high
#Hubert#that one post of his is getting notes again so here’s a Hube update for anyone who wants it#he loves the new house he and Bernie run around and up and down the stairs all the time it’s good#he’s fallen off the balcony one time and since has been more careful#but I do keep trying to get him to jump down into my loving arms and he just WONT WHY DONT YOU LOVE ME MY BABY MY CHILD MY LITTLE ANGEL#ugh ok tags now#cat#cats#cute cat#kitties#tuxedo cat#black and white cat#petblr#catblr#cats of tumblr#peep the Sasuke and Naruto blanket out wifi password is yaoiranch420 lol
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so, it’s been 5 years. i always intended to return to my art tumblr, and with everyone jumping ship at twitter right now, i figured it’d be a good time to make it official. here are a few recent drawings as proof
#ive been on a social media hiatus#i wont be incredibly active right now#but soon#hope you can stick around#<3#ocs#also i want to say i never actually left tumblr i just stopped posting art
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Just a buncha cynthias
#some of these look out of character but eh#pokemon#art tag#champion cynthia#i draw cynthia so much shes so fun to draw. illl never know how her hair works that wont stop me#ive started watching a bunch of the pokemon anime even though i never liked it before. MAN i was missing out#i mostly just tuned in to see it butched my fav characters but thats the completely wrong mindset to watch it in#ive been watching as somewhat separate to the games and its so much fun#and the dub…… its good but so unintentionally funny#i didnt care abt alain but after seeing him go MEGA EVAAAOLVE like 5 times in the mega special i adore him#if i dont see miarin in the anime again ill cry i miss her#last thing about the anime for now i forgot they kept lances old va for journeys#im used to his pokemas and generations voice which is p different so that was funny. leons journeys va is so good too#ANYWAYS CYNTHIA. cried when i saw her again in journeys. shes so cool
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Sherlock Holmes and the Adventure of the Furtive Festivity - Short Film (2019)
#im screaming#they’re husbands they’re husbands they’re husbands YESSS#THIS IS WHAT IVE BEEN CRAVING#FINALLYYYY#ALSO THE KISS#ITS SO CUTE#I PHYSICALLY CAN NOT HANDLE THIS RIGHT NOW#THIS IS THE CUTEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN#PLEASE WATCH IT#ITS ON YOUTUBE#PLEASE YOU WONT REGRET IT#Sherlock Holmes#dr john watson#Victorian husbands: but for real this time#Johnlock#acd johnlock#john x sherlock#sherlock x john#holmes x watson#johnlock kiss#Sherlock Holmes and the adventure of the furtive festivity#short film#partners in crime#and love#makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside!
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Mike: *shows up to california in that god awful outfit*
Will: Ugh I can't believe I'm going to make out with him
Jonathan: You don't have to
Will: No I'm gonna
#(source: (brooklynn nine nine))#byler#stranger things#mike wheeler#will byers#st incorrect quotes#incorrect quotes#incorrect byler#incorrect byler quotes#has this been done before??#if so#i apologize#userfandomfoundmyart#mine#byler tumblr#mikes california outfit#yes im making that a tag now#cant stop wont stop#bam
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“do you fancy a fine fabric?”
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a piece I made for Nova and Mali’s As A Crew zine! All proceeds will be going to charities that support the LGBTQIA+ community. Check it out here!
#ofmd#our flag means death#blackbeard#edward teach#stede bonnet#blackbonnet#stedebeard#my ofmd phase seems quite a while ago nowadays#even though i know it hasnt been that long#still#looking at this makes me feel quite nostalgic#i know for a fact i could do this artwork better now#progress in art is a trip#btw this was referenced off a painting#i forget its name#its the one with the burly guy watching a twink play an instrument for him on the floor and hes clearly smitten#this wont signal a return to the ofmd fandom by any means but i hope you enjoy this#stillindigo art
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Old old old personya doodles i never posted here !!!!!
First pic is a redraw of the first time i ever drew p5-kun and second pic is him with my doggie hehe ... the exasperated lookin yosuke is like a yr old now
#persona 4#persona 5#p4#p5#yosuke hanamura#joker#akira kurusu#ren amamiya#yu narukami#nanako dojima#fanart#doodles#i havent been able to draw lately because i work full time now 😔 we live in a society#teddie#also ive been to stressed out to look at twitter so im probably gonna remake again whenever i have the chance to draw more#which probably wont be for a few months#hence why im postin here
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thank you for coming to the show
but now it's curtain call
and senses will be out the window in a minute
#pokemon#swsh#champion leon#ft. charizard#hi. still acquainting myself to the screen tablet#it's kinda doing things to my brain#so it.s taking a hot sec okay. but its cool we are getting there#I guess. this is kinda the mid autumn stuff? for now#I wanna do a comic for the day... but we will see. we will see!#but yeah lol this is also just like. basically a tech demo for the tablet. with me drawing leon's hair again#lining this one in SAI2 was a feat! but it does work better on a screen tablet than on a graphic tablet#simply due to I see where the pen is#okay I will take a nap now. and I will draw more tonite perhaps#and!! this weekend. I go watch nope in theater again. Im ready for it (Im not)#(Im gonna be so scared holy shit I wont sleep well for another few days. its gonna slap)#have a good day guys!! blue is okay sometimes. use wisely
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Sometimes we just need to remember someone cares…hugs are the best.
Edit: welp, making dialogs in your second language late at night after several hours making a comic isnt as easy as it sounds.
I realized i had some grammar mistakes so im correcting them now :))
#i actually added text to it now hahgshahs#Dc is full of coward that wont embrace the bruce wayne is actually a good person AND trying his best as a parent#but thats why im here ;D#anyways#Bruce will wait till Dick is ready to talk#if that day ever comes….#Dick Grayson#bruce wayne#dick grayson#i hope this brought you guys some comfort#batfamily#batfam#Dc let bruce hug his children challenge 2022#deste does art
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December 25, 12:15 AM
#its christmas now sorry i dont live in your time zone🤷#myart#ace attorney#i turned emo thinking about miles edgeworth coping with dl6#i have so much to say ab this but im not gonna bc i wont be able to shut up#and def not gonna do it here in tags#also i hope my interpretation of the scene is not too out of concept o<—<#gun tw#gun cw
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let sans rest day, featuring the entire skelefam! cus brain rot
#i wanted to draw more but my wrist rlly hurts and im tired lmfao#i had to do this today cus i missed both of the let papyrus say fuck days#one day i will tag a post with that tag#one day#but for now#letsansrest#he deserves it#can we get some appreciation for this wonderful wonderful guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#i love him so much#i could talk about him for hours#this entire family has me in a choke hold#pap doesnt know how to relax tm#gaster is liquid tm#also listened to. sm. ytpmvs while drawing this. sans would absolutely love ytpmvs wont he#assuming he isnt making them#i also need to draw/at least sketch a dtiys that i really wanna do#its them also#shocking i know#so im not going to bed <3#gn yall i love you so so much <333!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#sans#papyrus#gaster#skelefam#dadster
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